Think of it as trying to seduce someone new.
While another supporter is always good, the question is, are you able to take all of that upon your shoulders?
Thank you for being an amazing friend.
I did meet some of her friends at a Christmas party.
She did everything for them to a point of it being over the top.
So not even your ex knows who she really is.
Just like excessive need for love and attention, this trait on its own is not particularly negative.
Thank you for all the insightful information.